The Sweet Spot: I’m in Love. But I Still Crave the Attention of Other Men.
Cheryl Strayed: There isn’t anything wrong with wanting to feel desired by people who are not your partner, Attention. It’s a fairly common longing among people who are in monogamous relationships, even happy ones. But my sense of your conundrum is that it’s more complicated than that. You aren’t worried because you feel thrilled when…