After a Yearlong Dating Hiatus, (Cautiously) Embracing Something New
After the meditation class, Mr. Flower called Ms. Savage to ask if him being transgender was a problem for her. “I guess not,” Ms. Savage replied. But in truth, Ms. Savage was flummoxed; her entire identity and social life in Oakland, Calif., was built around the lesbian and women’s music communities. After a childhood in…