At the Singles Table, Sparks Flew

Like many single people attending friends’ weddings, Alexandra Telford Dale and Patrick John Kohout were each given a rundown of eligible guests attending the June 4, 2022, nuptials of John O’Malley and Samantha Pelcher in Manchester, Vt. For whatever reason, though, “They left us off each other’s lists,” said Mr. Kohout, an account executive at…

Her First and Last Dating App Date

In February 2020, when Krystle-Jayne Mei-Ying Ng first saw the dating app profile of Hanna Sophia Rinderknecht-Mahaffy, one crucial detail struck her: her listed height. Ms. Rinderknecht-Mahaffy’s profile on Her, a dating app for L.G.B.T.Q. women and nonbinary people, said that she was 6-foot-6. For Ms. Ng, who is 5-foot-2, the height difference was a…

Putting the Real Me in My Dating Profile

I name my houseplants after movie characters that die. That way, if they don’t survive, it’s less tragic and more like a plotline. This is all according to my Hinge profile. It’s also real, unlike profiles that embellish (“where’s my happy place? with you gurl”) or lie (“still figuring out my dating goals”). My plants…