Resisting the Hot Reservation Economy

If you’d prefer to stay off the reservation sites, you can try calling: Restaurants of a certain era, like Yakitori Totto near Carnegie Hall, sometimes take last-minute reservations over the phone. Or you should join every restaurant obsessive I know in dining out at 6 p.m. Sure, it’ll be on the quiet side when you…

What the Mullet Means Now

Lil Nas X caused a stir, as he is wont to do, when he arrived on the red carpet at MTV’s Video Music Awards last fall wearing a lavender hybrid outfit — half pantsuit and half off-the-shoulder gown — by Atelier Versace. The aim, explained the rapper, was to telegraph “a mix of masculine and…

Alyssa Shelasky Needs a Night Out

RHINEBECK, N.Y. — Alyssa Shelasky, a travel, food, parenting and sex writer, recently experimented with a new medium: composing a “Missed Connection” on Craigslist. Earlier this year, she bought a weekend home near Rhinebeck, N.Y., with her partner, Sam Russell, and she’s been trying to get settled, maybe even find a friend. “When we first…

The Sisterhood of the Stanley Tumbler

She began coveting it after seeing social media posts by Kristin Johns and Emilie Kiser, both influencers who post about motherhood. But every time Stanley restocks the tumbler, it has sold out, she said. Released every few months in batches that vary in quantity, the tumbler has been listed for as much as $100 on…