Lila Miller, Jonathan Backer
Lila Rebecca Miller and Jonathan Lev Backer are to be married Nov. 10 at the Haven, an events space in Tomales, Calif. Rabbi Dena A. Feingold, the groom’s mother, is to officiate. The bride, 31, and groom, 32, are both civil rights lawyers in Washington, she at the law firm Relman, Dane & Colfax, and…